Instead of a post-Christmas holiday this year, the hubby and I have opted for a few day-trips with Miss Five and Master One. Today, we’re taking the 90-minute roadie from Auckland’s North Shore to Tawharanui, near Warkworth. (Fun Fact: The Maori name Tawhara-nui refers to ‘The abundant bracts of the Kiekie shrub’).
We plan to join family who are camping in the area, for a day enjoying the water, the sand and most likely the local ice cream! Thanks to swimming lessons, Miss Five’s water-confidence has improved a lot in the past few years and she’ll no doubt be keen to take a splash alongside an adult in the shallows. It’ll be our toddler’s second time exploring the beach and sea, so much care and safety precautions will be in place for him too.
No doubt many of you will be enjoying an Aotearoa beach this week. Why not send us a pic of your tribe having fun in the water (if not the beach, perhaps a pool or even a sprinkler!)? Upload it here and be in the draw to win an epic Vtech KidiZoom Action Cam, worth $110.
Sometimes our children can sound like a broken record wanting and, needing everything in sight! It is times like this when can find ourselves going a bit crazy wanting to run from all the demands. One major tip to help avoid this, is teaching your child the difference between ‘want and need’. By explaining to your child there is a big difference between “I need a drink” or “I want a toy”, you will help your child understand when it’s the right time to ask for something and, hopefully will diminish the list of requirements for you!
Is your kid nose-picker?
Deal with any allergies and dehydration issues first as these can make picking seem necessary. Teach your child to use a handkerchief or tissue, as the main problem is the spreading of germs from fingers straight to the nasal cavity.
My child can’t stop saying rude words! What do I do?
As parents we all will experience our children saying rude words, whether it is as small as be saying ‘poo’, or screaming a swear word in the middle of a supermarket. No matter the circumstance, it is our job as parents to teach the child what is acceptable language to use. When your child uses these inappropriate words you can…
1. Firmly explain this is a bad word and “we don’t use that word in this house”.
2. Set a rule that if this word is used again, there will be a punishment.
3. Ask if they understand this discussion you two have just had.