Preparing for a new baby

preparing for a new baby

Sometimes during your pregnancy, you may not have the energy, but you won’t regret it if you take a tip from the Boy Scouts and Be Prepared.

Planning and organising

Biologically, the last months of pregnancy are for slowing down. Ironically, though, they’re also full of activity because you’re nesting. You may unexpectedly dejunk your bathroom cabinet or paint the garage – projects not remotely connected with the baby.

The following list should help you keep your focus:

  • Get the nursery and all things baby-ready (see side panel).
  • Cook extra every night and freeze portion-size dinner leftovers for those first post-labour weeks.
  • Cover your side of the bed with a plastic mattress protector in case your waters break.
  • Pack your hospital bag with your birthing plan, toiletries, nightie, slippers, clothes to go home in, sanitary pads, nursing bras, baby bottle, nappies, baby clothes, baby blanket, camera, water and snacks.
  • Plan the quickest route to the hospital, in traffic and off-peak.
  • Do a trial run, taking note where to park and which door to use.
  • Keep enough petrol in the car to get you to the hospital.
  • Keep the mobile phone battery charged.
  • Write down phone numbers for alternative transport: taxi, friends, neighbours.
  • Organise household help – perhaps people could give you an hour of vacuuming instead of a pair of booties?
  • Compose a list of baby names.
  • Install a car seat to bring the baby home. Many car seats cater for newborns up to 36 months, though a baby capsule is a popular choice for the first 3 months because of its portability.
  • Get plenty of rest. This is your last chance to sleep through the night for a long time.

Renting baby gear

Renting baby gear makes a lot of sense. Babies grow fast and their needs change accordingly.

Consider hiring the following:

  • Baby capsule
    • Bassinette
    •  Sling
    •  Front-pack (kangaroo pouch)
    •  Breast pump
    •  Baby toys and books

Antenatal classes

Antenatal classes teach you how to look after yourself in pregnancy, about the different labour options and caring for your newborn. Realistically, it’s a crash course and you’ll graduate feeling both that you’ve learnt heaps and that you don’t know enough.

It’s a great forum to ask questions, voice concerns and share your experiences.

You will also meet other local couples, who will form your support network in the first year of parenthood, and often beyond.

Breastfeeding classes

Both your own midwife and the midwife at the antenatal classes will teach you the basics of breastfeeding, but breastfeeding classes give you additional information and confidence.

Make room in your heart

It takes time to become a mother. Not the nine months for the baby to grow, but for your mind to wrap around the concept of “I’m going to be a mum”. Like the pre-wedding jitters, it’s common to get a mini identity crisis pre-baby.

Anxiety and anticipation go hand in hand, mixed with all your pre-natal hormones, so talk to others about your feelings.

Your other children

Make sure your children understand the brother or sister they’re getting is a baby, not an older sibling. Show them photos of themselves when a baby and tell them about the things they used to do (cry, spill, pull funny faces). You may want to read them a book about the facts of life.

Decide who will look after your children while you’re in labour: is it going to depend on the time of day (morning, afternoon, middle of the night) or the day of the week? Have a back-up person for every option and let your children know about the arrangements.

If they’re going to a babysitter, help them pack their overnight bags and sneak in a surprise present. If they’re staying at home, stock up on their favourite food and brand-new activities (colouring books, building blocks, DVD).

Where possible, involve your children in getting ready for the baby. Let them fold the layette and help you pack your bag. Thank them for sharing their old cot and toys with their new brother or sister.

Remember to check the general condition of the baby things in your storeroom. If the gap between your baby and your youngest child is substantial, check the safety requirements of any cots, prams or car seats you’re planning to re-use.

When the baby’s here


  • Total and absolute change to your schedule, body, emotions and relationships
  • Turmoil and chaos
  • No me-time
  • Physical exhaustion
  • Overwhelming love and a sense of fulfilment

In a nutshell, it’s worth it!

It takes time to become a mother. Not the nine months for the baby to grow, but for your mind to wrap around the concept of “I’m going to be a mum”. Like the pre-wedding jitters, it’s common to get a mini identity crisis pre-baby.

BABY TIPS: our mums  top 5

There’s nothing quite like having gone through the experience to know what works and what doesn’t when bringing up baby. We asked four mums to
give us five of their best suggestions.

Kelly (mum to 10-month-old twins and a 2½-year-old)

  • White noise CD – it was great with Cooper, as he was very hard to settle, and even better with the twins because I could turn it up so they could still sleep through a noisy toddler.
  • Merino singlets and sleepwear – perfect to keep the boys warm in winter and cool in summer, plus they’re machine washable and can be tumble dried.
  • My Sky – it’s worth paying for. If you get a chance to watch TV you don’t have to waste time with the ads and you can watch your favourite programmes when you know you’re not going to get interrupted.
  • Bouncy chairs – they were the only way I could feed the twins together once they were old enough. Now they can lay back and feed themselves.
  • Caller ID – this is a must for a busy mum. Sounds horrible but sometimes there are phone calls you just don’t have the energy for.

Amanda (mum to a 6-month-old)

  • Moses basket – so easy to have baby with me going from room to room to outside, dinners at friends’ places, holidays. Magic!
  • Sleeping bag/snugglesacks – comforting knowing baby can’t kick the blankets off and will be warm the whole night through. (Mummy wants one now.)
  • Drawstring (Oshkosh) nighties when first born – made life so easy.
  • Wraps – merino ones are great for warmth in winter and the stretchy fabric ones are awesome for summer.
  • Backseat mirror – great to be able to see baby from the driver’s seat so I can put the dummy back in, to cover her face from sunlight, to uncover her face from blanket, etc.

Kim (mum to 4-year-old, 3-year-old and 6-month-old)

  • Sling and/or front pack – my baby gets carried around a lot more as I need to get things done.
  • Dream Baby bath seat – so my baby can sit safely in the bath with the other kids and I have my hands free to keep them all under control.
  • Capsule that snaps on to buggy – so the baby can move to and from the car during picks-ups, drop-offs and errands.
  • The 10pm dream feed – Sleep is essential and this helps get baby sleeping through as soon as possible.
  • Frozen meals – I make double and freeze half. It doesn’t take any extra time and if everything goes wrong we can still eat.

Jo (mum to a toddler)

  • Safe-T-Sleep – so you know your bub hasn’t rolled on to his/her tummy and is safe in the bassinet/cot.
  • Snap-n-Go wheels (or a pram that baby capsule can fit on) – superb for the first six months when you don’t want to wake up baby when transferring from car to pram.
  • Swaddling wrap – SwaddleMe was my favourite as it had great velcro strips and you could change nappies while bub was still swaddled.
  • Getting nappies delivered – saves you all that lugging to and fro. I use Nappies Direct.
  • Amber beads – seem to work really well for teething with my little boy. And they look cute (see the beads surrounding this story).

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